
When we have clothes made through the bespoke process, it is good to be aware of our bodies' peculiarities: how tall we are, how thin, how well built, how wide the shoulders are, how big the head, how narrow the heaps... But clothes are just instruments of Dress: we never wear a jacket, a shirt or a pair of shoes by themselves. Our garments, accessories, shoes need to be able to speak to each other, to share a common language, to be of the same family. They need a common denominator. And when they are worn by a breathing, moving, living being, their voice (singular at the time of conception and making) becomes part of a choir. When they are made, clothes must go well with our body. When they are worn, they need to complement our movements, our gestures, our posture, our way of walking; our regard, not the colour of our eyes; our smile and countenance and expression, not our complexion. On the hanger, they are but inanimate garments... WE breathe life into clothes when we WEAR them, and that is in the spirit of Style. We should bear this in mind when we commission or buy clothes, along with the cloth, fit and tailoring issues.
Style is personal, but not subjective. It is real, not imaginary - though we cannot touch it and we have a hard time telling what it is. Sometimes it seems easier to say what it is NOT. It is an objective quality, since we see it in various forms in many people - in that sense, it is inter-personal: it is shared by those who decide to tap into it. And being so, it is trans-personal, in that it has an existence of its own: we are just mirrors reflecting more or less of it, according to the purity of the silver backing and of how clean we keep the glass. Why paint the sky and the sun on our windows with thick layers when all we need to do is let the light of day come through unobstructed? Some of us decide that the painted sun and sky is "stylish" and continue to add layers of paint when any crack appears. But all we need is a clear glass and some inspiration to manifest Style in our lives. Our bespoke wardrobes need to be conceived in the clear light of day so we can have Style wearing them.