rip wrote:The question was rightly asked, "From whence cometh the rule?" What was absent was any kind of reasonable answer, only that it was "Ugly, ugly, ugly!"
No, the "ugly, ugly, ugly" remark was posted before the question "whence cometh the rule?" which was answered almost immdediately.
But it is only ugly because someone once upon a time made up a rule that henceforth, button-down collars and french cuffs together would be ugly, ugly ugly. There is no inherent sense to this, no aesthetic crime being committed, except in the eyes of the keepers of the True Flame.
I disagree with this, and have already explained why. My reasoning is akin to what you write below:
Truth be told, it makes a certain sense to pair a soft collar with soft cuffs.
Of course, at one time, anything other than a wooly mammoth skin would have been "against the rules", and I sometimes feel that the "rule-keepers" would return us there.
Once again, if we must have this semantic debate over what is a "rule" or a "standard" or a "practice" or a "guideline", I am prepared to have it. In the meantime, I would only ask those who inisist that there are no rules and mock anyone who insists that there are: Would you wear a purple notched lapel tailcoat with a buttondown shirt and a long tie and tan suede loafers in the daytime? And if not, why not?