Very well put. I feel my dress is for self expression and if I get that right, I feel good about myself and I have a spring in my step, which others might respond to at a subconscious level, although that is not my motivation.Manself wrote:
dressing properly (and feeling good about myself as a result)
Costi:
That's the point, to me - more than whom I am going to meet, bump into or date. If anything, my interest is not in what others think about my dress, but what they think about ME. Part of feeling that I am myself lies in my dress. So if I want to offer others the best of ME, I need to FEEL the best of me and, if my dress depresses me, it's hard to do that. So I dress for myself, to my own taste, for my own pleasure and, by doing that, I am in my best mood / shape for others, as Manself wrote.
Why not wear your tie with a more debonair casual attitude than those around you in their open necked ensembles, who are, in fact, the ones conforming to the norm and lacking the expression of any individuality?
I would agree that there are some well made rtw suits...that is why my current bespoke projects are moving away from drab grey business suit types and towards more stylish weekend, after hours and country suits of the type favoured by the DOW. This makes me feel good and whether others agree with my taste does not impact me. One thing I find though, is that not due to lack of confidence or regard for the acceptance of the group, but due to laziness..I sometimes hesitate to bother to dress when it is not essential..but, I always have a better time when dressed, so I try not to deny myself that pleasure.