Caution re over-advising your tailor
Posted: Thu Dec 15, 2005 8:45 pm
I made an observation today that I thought I would share in the hope that it proves useful to some.
I went for a first fitting on a new suit today to Raphael (and happily ran into a fellow LL member whose sartorial knowledge and creativity one can only begin to intuit from his all too rare posts). I also brought with me my trousers from my first suit, which were bothering me a bit now that I had worn them a few times. Both pairs had what I thought was a little extra cloth around the thigh - I thought perhaps they were a bit too long and that was causing the extra gathering. One pair was also a bit binding in the crotch area and I thought needed a longer rise. I tried them on one at a time. I commented to Raphael on the first pair that I thought they were a bit too long. He looked at me and the trousers and then said - “well if you think so, I can shorten them. Also, I think there is a little too much cloth here“ and he grabbed the thigh area I had noticed. Beginning to learn my lesson, on the second pair I told him what was bothering me, instead of what I thought needed to be done. He had me move the trousers up and down on my waist, fiddle with my braces, etc. He then made a few [uncomfortable] tugs and told me what he was going to do. It went too quickly for me to remember all of it - he would open the V notch in the waistband to change the angle but not widen the waist and do some other stuff. He explained that he wanted to change the balance of the trousers, not necessarily increase the length of the rise.
Why do I recount this? Well, I have noticed several posts on the various fora where people put up a picture, and then ask “what alterations do I need?” They get all sorts of responses of varying quality. Some responses are astoundingly technical I recall Darren Beamen drawing a pattern and posting it once. This is all good natured and well-intended, but it also seems like an invitation to disaster. In my opinion, we all need to find ourselves the best tailors we can, and then trust in their skills. They don’t need us to tell them to change the shoulder line or open the armhole or move a side seam. They need us to simply say what we do or don’t like about a garment’s comfort or appearance. They can figure out how to make it right. In other words, our job is tell them what we want and their job, for which they are far better suited then we, is to execute our desire using their skill rather than our directions.
In my case, I was fortunate that Raphael knows his trade far better than me and is not shy about telling me what he thinks. A lesser tailor, or one who did not understand that I valued his advice, might have just done what I asked. My trousers would have been shorter and I would have gotten a longer rise, but that is not really what I wanted. It is just what I mistakenly thought needed to be done. I think the medical analogy is apt. In the future, if I have something in need of alteration, I will bring the tailor my symptoms, but leave the diagnosis and treatment to him.
Note: I realize that the web reaches a wide audience, many of whom do not have the access to skilled tailors available to those of us in New York, Boston, Philadelphia, London, Naples, Paris etc. (I am afraid to miss any). In that case, getting the most detailed instructions you can from the very knowledgeable participants on this site and others is a sensible alternative. But let us not forget that it is a compromise, at best.
I went for a first fitting on a new suit today to Raphael (and happily ran into a fellow LL member whose sartorial knowledge and creativity one can only begin to intuit from his all too rare posts). I also brought with me my trousers from my first suit, which were bothering me a bit now that I had worn them a few times. Both pairs had what I thought was a little extra cloth around the thigh - I thought perhaps they were a bit too long and that was causing the extra gathering. One pair was also a bit binding in the crotch area and I thought needed a longer rise. I tried them on one at a time. I commented to Raphael on the first pair that I thought they were a bit too long. He looked at me and the trousers and then said - “well if you think so, I can shorten them. Also, I think there is a little too much cloth here“ and he grabbed the thigh area I had noticed. Beginning to learn my lesson, on the second pair I told him what was bothering me, instead of what I thought needed to be done. He had me move the trousers up and down on my waist, fiddle with my braces, etc. He then made a few [uncomfortable] tugs and told me what he was going to do. It went too quickly for me to remember all of it - he would open the V notch in the waistband to change the angle but not widen the waist and do some other stuff. He explained that he wanted to change the balance of the trousers, not necessarily increase the length of the rise.
Why do I recount this? Well, I have noticed several posts on the various fora where people put up a picture, and then ask “what alterations do I need?” They get all sorts of responses of varying quality. Some responses are astoundingly technical I recall Darren Beamen drawing a pattern and posting it once. This is all good natured and well-intended, but it also seems like an invitation to disaster. In my opinion, we all need to find ourselves the best tailors we can, and then trust in their skills. They don’t need us to tell them to change the shoulder line or open the armhole or move a side seam. They need us to simply say what we do or don’t like about a garment’s comfort or appearance. They can figure out how to make it right. In other words, our job is tell them what we want and their job, for which they are far better suited then we, is to execute our desire using their skill rather than our directions.
In my case, I was fortunate that Raphael knows his trade far better than me and is not shy about telling me what he thinks. A lesser tailor, or one who did not understand that I valued his advice, might have just done what I asked. My trousers would have been shorter and I would have gotten a longer rise, but that is not really what I wanted. It is just what I mistakenly thought needed to be done. I think the medical analogy is apt. In the future, if I have something in need of alteration, I will bring the tailor my symptoms, but leave the diagnosis and treatment to him.
Note: I realize that the web reaches a wide audience, many of whom do not have the access to skilled tailors available to those of us in New York, Boston, Philadelphia, London, Naples, Paris etc. (I am afraid to miss any). In that case, getting the most detailed instructions you can from the very knowledgeable participants on this site and others is a sensible alternative. But let us not forget that it is a compromise, at best.