This makes tailoring all the more important (not less), because it is through bespoke tailoring that we are able to materialize these aesthetic aspirations .
The key is to say that tailors should not be dressing you in the first place. That is something you will need to do for yourself. Tailors should be making clothes for you, clothes specified according to the style you wish, the one that is yours (not necessarily his or hers.)
And from this statement arises two challenges often written about here. The prospective bespoke client should do enough homework to find a tailor who is capable and willing to make the kind of clothes desired.
All too often, tailors have only one way of doing things, the things they were taught, feel comfortable with or are commercially feasible for them. When I was a young man there was a commercial for perfumes that went something like this:
Promise her anything, but give her Arpege! Unfortunately, many tailors will promise you things they cannot do and deliver only what they are willing for you to have. Stay alert! Refuse to listen to a tailor's diversionary tripe and insist on seeing clothes worn by real clients, not in pictures or dummies. You will know a tailor’s works best from their deeds and not their words! Some of the great disappointments with bespoke work can be avoided if one follows this advice.
Great dressers have style before they ever step into the tailors, where they go to buy clothes. You cannot buy style. No one can make it, craft or package it. It has nothing to do with your physique or tailoring manuals. It has to do with you.
Yes, and this fundamental runs afoul of everything you have ever read on the subject (and that alone should lead you to suspect its veracity.)
Cheers
Michael Alden